John H. Paul, Jr. - Loved by So Many

John Henry Paul Jr. passed away on March 23, 2026, surrounded by the family who loved and adored him, after a courageous and valiant battle with glioblastoma.

A Lifelong Mamaroneck Village Resident – and Red Sox Fan

John Paul—known fondly as “JP” throughout the Village of Mamaroneck—was born on June 27, 1968, the only child of John Henry Paul Sr. and Gladys Belowich Paul, both of whom predeceased him.  A lifelong resident, JP was a familiar and beloved presence in the community.  He proudly sported his Red Sox apparel, delighting in riling up local Yankees fans—including his own parents.  He shared a long-running tradition of Sal’s Pizza bets with the crew at Anthony’s Deli, a friendly rivalry that finally evened out on the “battlefield” in 2004.

Sports Fan and Player

In addition to his love for the Red Sox, JP was an avid New York Knicks fan and a passionate basketball player.  He played at Mamaroneck High School and later at Columbus Park, where he continued to enjoy the game recreationally.  He also gave back to the sport by coaching CYO basketball with his good friend Bruce, and later coaching his own sons alongside his “adopted” brother, Chris.  JP was always eager to support the community, volunteering at MHS football pasta dinners and gathering with friends after the season.  He was a fixture at first base at Harbor Island for many years and treasured the opportunity to share the field with his sons—sometimes as teammates, sometimes as opponents—before ultimately hanging up his cleats.

Long Time Village Employee Who Built Relationships

JP remained deeply rooted in his hometown throughout his life.  He held several local jobs, including positions at the Post Office, Soji’s Stationery, CrossRoads, and JB & Franks.  His favorite role, however, was with the Village of Mamaroneck.  He began as a lifeguard at Harbor Island, later worked in the Parks Department, and eventually found his home in the Sanitation Department.  There, he built lasting connections with residents—often while playfully taunting them in his Red Sox hat.

A Volunteer Firefighter with Fun and Flair

In 1986, JP joined the Hook and Ladder Fire Company, following in the footsteps of his father and his future father-in-law, James Wagner.  His dedication and leadership led him to serve as Chief of the Department from 2001 to 2004.  JP loved being a volunteer firefighter, and his personality brought both fun and flair to the role—whether through organizing a KISS cover band or having his children proudly wear Red Sox shirts while marching in the fireman’s parade.

It was through the Hook and Ladder that JP grew close to Michelle “Missy” Wagner.  After a memorable road trip to Graceland, he won her heart, and their friendship blossomed into a lifelong partnership.  They were married to the tune of Elvis Presley’s “Can’t Help Falling in Love,” a song that perfectly captured their bond.

Devoted to Family

Together, JP and Michelle built a beautiful family.  They welcomed their first child, John, two years later, and JP embraced fatherhood with joy—sharing his love of music, especially KISS, and even building a stage in the basement.  Four years later, their daughter Jennifer arrived, bringing even more sunshine into his life.  Their youngest, James, was a welcome completion to the family.  JP embraced and influenced his passions for the Red Sox, Knicks, and KISS providing the kids with countless memories of Fenway Park and Jones Beach concerts.

Though initially hesitant, JP eventually welcomed a “doggie daughter,” Bella, into the family.  She quickly became a beloved companion, and he faithfully walked her multiple times a day—right up until the week before his passing.

As an only child, JP’s life grew joyfully full with the addition of his extended family.  He embraced his in-laws—James and Carol Wagner—and his sisters- and brothers-in-law Vicki (Scott), Julie (Steve), and Denise (Justin), along with his nieces and nephews Sarah, Scott, Sam, and Madelyn.  He also treasured his time with the Costable, Forkell, and Ballasedis families, especially during holidays.  JP held dear the memories of his Aunt Marie and Uncle Henry, and their children Hank, JoAnne, and Marion.  He remained close with his Belowich cousins—especially Nancy, David, and Gary—with whom he shared a love for the Red Sox, and he appreciated the many texts and connections maintained over the years.

JP’s easygoing nature, infectious personality, and mischievous sense of humor will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him.